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For whatever things were written before were written for our learning,
that we through the patience and comfort of scripture might have hope. ~ Romans 15:4

The Soul’s Struggle

Confused
Lying in a sea of lies
What to do
Stand and wait
Wait for what
Answers from God of course
A friendly voice to lead me on
But is it God I hear
Or does evil deceive
The difference seems so slight
Snares of Satan well disguised
A wolf in sheep’s clothing
Patiently he waits
Pouncing at the perfect time
Preying on weakness, fears, and doubt
Devouring the light
Uncertainty rules the moment
The struggle for the soul continues

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In this life there are many obstacles. Some are easy to overcome, like what to have for dinner, or how to complete a project at work. Other obstacles are more difficult, such as which job offer to accept, or how to spend or invest money in the wisest way. Still other obstacles cause much heartache and confusion, especially those focused around the emotions of the heart, such as direction in an adulterous marriage with someone you love, clarity in how to best deal with a rude and disrespectful teen, yet still show them how much you love them, or what to do and where to turn when you are experiencing abuse.

God is always there, guiding you through the storms of life, helping you with the direction to go, giving you courage to do what needs to be done, and providing endurance and strength to get you there. However, another force is at play in this fallen world…Satan…and he seeks to draw you away from the only One that can help you most…God. He uses your fear, worry, doubt, weaknesses, and insecurities to cause you to lose sight of God and all His hope, comfort, guidance, and love. Satan knows that if he hollers loud enough, you will hear him and many times make poor choices because of it. This is the plight of the soul! The struggle between flesh and spirit! The war that rages between light and dark!

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1 Peter 5:8 reminds us that Satan is always on the lookout, waiting to devour us, to destroy us. “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” In our flesh it is easy to listen and heed the voice of Satan. Have you ever heard the whispers of doubt, shame, anger, bitterness, or arrogance in your head?

You will never be able to get out of this abusive relationship because you have no where to go, no one else who will love you.

How could you think you are smart enough to go back to school or apply for that job, just give up?

You are so ugly, no one will love you, stop trying?

You are not strong enough to lose the weight, so why bother?

You are a horrible person to talk to your kids that way, what kind of mother/father are you?

You should never forgive that person for what they did to you, stay angry, get revenge, you deserve it.

You can never be good enough for God so don’t bother trying.

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Satan’s bantering on the heart and mind has a way of wearing you down, causing you to see only the dark parts of who you are, the weak flesh. He wants to tear you down and destroy you, so your soul remains bitter and lost. He seeks nothing more than the opposite of God–he wants you to remain dead, separated from God and His love. It is so easy to listen to the negativity in your mind; so easy to believe the lies than the truth of who you really are!

What is that truth? You are a child of God. You have a future filled with hope, glory, and righteousness. God has other plans, despite Satan’s intentions. God wants to encourage you, build you up, give you strength, provide comfort, give clarity and directions, bring hope and joy. He wants to shelter you in the shadow of His wing, finishing all the work He has begun in your heart.

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When you feel lost and afraid. When you feel like your life just isn’t worth it and you would rather die than live. When you feel like all hope is gone and you can’t go on anymore. That is when you have to reach up toward the heavens and start listening to the truth of God. Here are some scriptures to help you begin your  journey of truth!

1. You are God’s child!

John 1:12 Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God

1 John 3:1-3 See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.•

2. You have been chosen by God!

Ephesians 1:3-8 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that he lavished on us with all wisdom and understanding.

3. You have been forgiven of all your sins, freed from condemnation!

Colossians 1:13-14 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

Romans 8:1-2 Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death.

Romans 8:31-39 What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died more than that, who was raised to life is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughter” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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4. God is working for your good in all things, to bring you hope and a future!

Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

5. God will provide for you!

Matthew 6:25-27 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life ?

Philippians 4:19 And my God will supply all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

2 Corinthians 9:8 And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things, at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.

6. God and His love will be with you always (no matter how you feel or what you have done)!

Deuteronomy 31:8 The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.

Psalm 27:10 Though your father and mother forsake you, the Lord will receive you.

Psalm 136:26 Give thanks to the God of Heaven. His love endures forever.

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7. God created you on purpose for a purpose!

Ephesians 2:10 For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

8. You can come to God with freedom and confidence!

Ephesians 3:12 In him and through faith in him we may approach God with freedom and confidence.

Hebrews 4:16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

9. You can do all things with Christ!

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.

2 Timothy 1:7 For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.

10. You are a new creation in Christ (your past forgotten, your future new and bright)

2 Corinthians 5:1 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! For whatever things were written before were written for our learning, that we through the patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope.

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11. You are an overcomer!

Romans 8:37-39 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, not angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Remember, there will always be battles between good and evil, right and wrong.  You may lose a few battles here and there, or you may have surrendered to the wrong or the evil at times, but you can win war with God at your side.  You can overcome!  You can hold tight to God’s truths!  You can trust He will bring you to the side of good and right every time!  You can rest in the knowledge that He has already won the war through the sacrifice of His Son on the Cross for you!  Reach up to God, cry out to your Lord, and let Him fight the struggle for your soul!

God bless and keep you, and know you are in my prayers!

More love!

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Oh my, how God challenges the heart and mind of the flesh; how he provides opportunities to practice and grow in this world so we can better reflect who He truly is.  I am the single mom of a 14-year-old boy who is, for the most part, wonderful and loving.  But oh boy, does he know how to push my buttons and escalate a situation to the outer limits!!??!!

Last night was a challenge, and to make a long story short, he was disrespectful and rude to the point that I did lose control of my temper (which takes a great deal to do I must say!).  My flesh sure did not show love to my son. It was not patient, nor was it kind. It was easily angered, tossed up past offenses without a second thought, and did not protect my son or bring him hope! Last night, my love failed him.

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As a parent, I am constantly learning, consistently growing, and always making mistakes that cause me to learn what not to do the next time around. As the situation worsened, I sent my son to the shower and then to his room.  While he was in the shower, I began venting my frustration and anger on the dishes, slamming things around, and ranting about how angry I was and how wrong my son had been, and how done I was with being a single mom (who did not put herself there), and screaming out to God (literally!!) to give me patience, wisdom, and direction, as I could see none of that in myself.  After my tirade and his shower, we both had some time in our own space to gather our thoughts. A couple of hours had passed; he was studying in his room, I was reading and praying for strength and the ability to make it through this very turbulent storm that came out of nowhere. I decided to seek him out to find a solution to the chaos and pain of the evenings events (I cannot go to bed mad at anyone I love, it kills me for I never know if there will be a tomorrow with that person!).

During my reading and praying, I came across a verse that completely resonated in the core of my being, a verse I had already written about on this very blog earlier in the day (God has a way of repeating his words when I need them most, and in hindsight, He was preparing me for what was to come!). The verse is 1 Corinthians 13:1-8a.

If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others (is not rude), it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

Oh me oh my, did my love fall very short of the love God desires me to show my son. Both of us fell short, using harsh, mean words, striking out where it would hurt, being angry and rude to one another. As I sat contemplating what God wanted me to do with that verse (other than actively practice it!), it just convicted me as a parent, as a Christian, as a daughter of the righteous King – a King whose love is perfect and hits it on the nail every time!! I indeed fall so short. So what to do?

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I began to write this scripture out, making two copies of it, not really knowing what I was going to do with them. After our cool off and contemplation time, I knocked gently on my son’s door, and he invited me in. I sat at his desk, praying in my mind as to what to do with the verse of which I had made two copies. I asked him how his studies were going, and he asked me to help him, so I did. When we got to a stopping point, I handed him the scripture I had written, focusing on the second half (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a). I asked him to read it while I continued reviewing his homework. He did so, and responded that he knew that scripture, but didn’t know what I wanted him to do with it. I asked him to circle all the ways that love was not given (on my part) during our confrontational argument earlier in the evening. He smiled slightly, and began to circle parts of the verse that I did not carry out. Unbeknownst to him, as he did this, I did the same on the other copy, circling the ways he did not carry out love in our confrontation. After a few moments, I asked him to read to me the ones he circled, and to give me the example of what I had done to break this Godly love. I did the same to him, reading from my sheet. We both had some tears by this point, and we spoke of forgiveness and living a life that reflects the love listed in 1 Corinthians 13.  We promised one another that we would work on the areas each of us was weak in and that we would do our best (as is humanly possible) to show love in the way 1 Corinthians 13 stated it.  It was a wonderful bonding opportunity for both of us!!

I have always spoken scripture to my son, or towards my son, using it as a tool to show him his need to obey and honor his parents, and also as a tool to bring him comfort during trials, and to help him face fears. But to this day, I cannot say that I have used it as a tool to really show the way for him; to reveal what God calls us to do; to provide a light to help him walk as Christ. This moment, this imperfect and undesirable storm brought about the most amazing moment yet in my Godly walk as a parent.  We truly never stop learning how to become better Christians, and if you think you have nothing to learn as a parent or as a Christian, indeed you are treading dangerous waters.

We are all called to be a light (a witness and an example) in the lives of our children, our family, with our coworkers, neighbors, or friends. But how do we show them what God has revealed to us? How do we teach them the word of God without pushing them away from the very truth and salvation we are trying to bring them closer to?

We live it!

In Britt Nicole’s song “Ready or Not,” Lacrea says it best…

I’m showing them how I feel cuz love is more than a word
It’s a noun, and a verb, and hiding it is absurd

Love is an action!  It is a thing!  It is something we have, something we can give, and something we can show with our actions and words.  Scripture indeed tells us of the importance of loving one another: Matthew 22:36-40, Mark 12:28-31, Luke 10:25-28, John 13:34-35, Romans 13:8-10, Galatians 5:13-14, 1 John 4:7-12, 1 Peter 3;8-12. God is love, and if we are to be like God, we are called to love!

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So shine bright. Yes, you will fail because you are human. You will get angry and lose your temper, saying things that should not be said (just as everyone else does at sometime in their life!). You will struggle, you will face trials and hardships that make you feel you will never be able to love. But through it all, SHINE! Be a witness that there is something bigger than all that. There is a God who has us, holds us, loves us. Be the light that shows God’s love, reveals who He truly is, and brings salvation that much closer to the lives of those around you.

God bless and keep you! In His love ❤

In Time….

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Sometimes, as we journey through this life, we make mistakes and then we have to clean up the mess!   However, it is through the clean up process that we build character, learn perseverance, and build our trust and reliance on God.  Though the process is sometimes difficult, the rewards are well worth it if we let God move through the mess, the clean up, and the learning.  He will guide.  He will protect.  He will strengthen.

For I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose.  For those God foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be firstborn among many brothers.  Moreover, those he predestined, he also called; and those he called he also justified; and those he justified, he also glorified.  What then shall we say to these things?  If God is for us, who can be against us?  Romans 8:28-31

The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid.  What can man do to me?  Psalm 118:6

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As a child of God you stand in the protection and refuge of the all knowing, all powerful, never changing, abundantly loving God of the inverse.  He has great plans for you and knows exactly how to get you there.  Will you make some mistakes along the way?  Will you detour now and again?  Will you struggle and be tempted to stay true to who God designed you to be?  Of course!  Everyone does! But God remains, and if you remain in Him, He will bless you indeed!

May the God of mercy, grace, and love keep you always in his arms, and may you trust and rely fully on Him for all you need!

With much love and prayers!